Self-Love. I Love Me!

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Me. Me. Me. Yes, sometimes it is all about me and I do not apologise for this, as it is a very important thing to focus on.

I liken this to the advice that is given on First Aid CPR (cardiopulmonary resuscitation) training courses when the DR ABC acronym is explained.

The D stands for Danger and it is the first thing that is considered to ascertain how the next step of any Response is taken. This is an important thing to do as one’s life may depend on it.

If there is a situation where someone is in need of some help, it is always a good idea to check out the safety aspects first. In the first instance, this is all about Self-Care; about Self-Love.

It is generally not wise to put oneself at risk to save another when there is imminent or even possible danger. This is not an easy thing to say, or even do, especially if the people we are trying to help are loved ones.

However, this advice is meant as a safety precaution and a warning about staying safe and being in a position of being most effective and useful in any given situation.

From this perspective it is very important to put ourselves first. All medical workers will tell you this. It is a big part of their training. In essence this is common sense training and advice.

And for me, this common sense also includes how I can choose to live a conscious and healthy life too. Self-Care and Self-Love is an essential part of my life.

For me, this extends out to having healthy boundaries and the ability to say yes or no in a clear and conscious way. It is all about knowing what is good for me; what is best for me.

I try to work with this sense of Self-Love every day and work as consciously and consistently as I can to have my clear and healthy boundaries in place so that I am more able to take care of myself; to love myself.

This is not an easy task and I find that I do get wounded and hurt, despite having the awareness to put this into place in my life.

Things still get to me, but maybe not quite as much as they would if I did not have this awareness and did not do the work that I do in this area.

Creating and having healthy boundaries is not just about the physical, it is also about the emotional, mental and spiritual as well. I have a saying that I use to support me in this work that I love to share with others:

“If it is not invited, it is not allowed in”.                  

When I work with my clients and students, this work on boundaries is one area where I spend much time. I see, too often, people with thin, or almost non-existent, boundaries. These people are often…

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Adrian Hanks

Adrian Hanks – Life Mastery Coach

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