Patterns reveal themselves in everything. They can be found everywhere in the world around us in nature, art, relationships, finances, health and spiritual conditions.
How we identify the predominant negative patterns that can hold us back in life and keep us from moving forward, actually allows new patterns to be created.
These difficult patterns to overcome, which can be a negative in your life, may seem like the hardest patterns to change. Overall you can usually pick up on the patterns that govern how you live your life.
- Do you find challenges you have in relationships by repeating the same experiences?
- Are you forever financially battling to make ends meet?
- Do you display signs of ups and down in your health, no matter what you do?
Universally speaking, Negative Life Patterns have been designed so when you eventually grasp the understanding that these continual patterns cause you much pain by hanging on to them, your inner being will guide you to redirect or change your life so it will become much more fulfilling.
These continual negative life patterns cause the stresses that can have the most impact on your health. You can be doing everything possible to maintain a healthy life, yet so much emotional stress can immobilize you so that you cannot function normally.
Understanding your Negative Life Patterns and the Emotions associated with them can change your life to one of feeling free and peaceful. Forensic healing can help!
Let me share with you a healing I did last evening on my mother and the Negative Life Patterns that came up for her.
My mother is 82 years old, she is very active, still of sound mind, some days can be a little rusty on the aches and pains, has always been into holistic therapies, even as a young child, we were bought up with using natural products as much as possible.
She does not to this day, use a daily prescribed drug for any ailment, she has used the odd antibiotic and pain killer over the years, but can quite happily say she is not dependant on any form of medication to survive!
My Mother’s Healing Session
My mother was in a lot of pain, her neck and the ability to turn her head to the left was quite painful. She rated the pain as a 9-10 /10.The pain was radiating up her neck and over the top of her head.
Negative Life Patterns revealed of being ‘trapped’ and ‘worthless’. And the emotions triggered them were ‘resentment’ and ‘forgiving’.
My mother explained, as a young woman (17) she was still living with her family (one of 5 other children) she had a job, but was forced to hand over her pay to her parents each week and only ever given pocket money.
She was trapped in this situation and this continued until she left home and got married! She always resented her father for this, which gave her the feeling of being worthless. There was no value on her contributions as she was not entitled to have her own money.
Looking back over her life, and whilst married to my father she maintained a “her and his” money attitude, she worked, earned her own income, but always held and spent freely for herself.
They shared equal responsibilities financially, though she valued things greater in a material way because she would resent having to give away money when she had earned it herself.
The underlying issue was that if she didn’t have these feelings of unworthiness (because she had to give her money to her father), she would have been less inclined to put a value on material possessions over and above anything else, throughout her life.
On checking with her progress the next day, my mother said she had no pain whatsoever, was able to turn her head and felt totally pain free!
With Forensic Healing we must follow a protocol that incorporates the necessary paths and asking questions that your body will reveal to me, (via kinesiology or muscle testing) as the conduit of the energy healing. Here’s an example of some of the Negative Life Patterns we use and their descriptions.
Distrust: You have struggled to trust others as you have felt so betrayed that trusting is very challenging to do.
Guilt: You have felt guilty about situations. You agree to do things only because you feel obligated and you think it is the ‘right’ thing to do.
Trapped: You have felt stuck in your life. Others have trapped you into circumstances you do not want.
Worthless: You have felt that you have never been validated as a person. People have put you down and made you feel inferior or not good enough.
So no matter your age, and using my mother’s healing session as an amazing insight…
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SHONA RUSSELL – Forensic Healer