When you look at people, why do you think some people are happier than other people? I have thought about this and this is my conclusion. It is about the love in our live and the people we surround ourselves with.
We all know money does not bring happiness. Certainly it makes life easier and can give us a better lifestyle but it does not make us happy. How many people do you know who have money and are not happy?
If you don’t personally know anyone look at the ‘famous people’ you see. Do you think they are all happy just because they have money? NO they are not. Look at how many commit suicide!
The happiest people I know are the ones who surround themselves with positive, loving people.
When we are happy, we attract happy people to us. Have you noticed that when you change, some of your friends from ‘old’ will stick around and some will not want anything to do with you any more? They just drop out of your life.
This is because when you become more positive and happy you will attract positive, happy people.
The people who like negativity or drama no longer have control over you because you don’t play into their drama cycle, so they leave your life and find other people who will play their drama ‘game’ with them.
So How Do You Start Attracting The Loving Happy People?
- Get rid of the negative people in your life. They want to keep you in their drama cycle. If you don’t change your life, no one else will. STOP making excuses saying ‘I can’t’ and start saying ‘I can’.
You are capable of so much more. See your story for what it is and create another story. ANY of us can create change one step at a time.
- Start thinking differently. Start thinking positively about your life. Start seeing the good things. Learn from the ‘bad’ or ‘negative things’ things. See them as a lesson to learn from. We cannot change our past but we can change our perception of the past.
We all have ‘bad’ or ‘negative things’ happen to us, but the positive people do not get stuck in the past. They move on taking the lessons with them.
- Find out where the people you want to mix with ‘hang out’ and go there. Happy people hold and live in a happy, positive vibration and it is contagious. The more you mix with these people the more you will become like them. They will help you to lift your spirit.
- Do thing you LOVE to do that make you HAPPY. Dance, sing, go out in nature, exercise, do art, listen to music, whatever makes you happy do more of that because it will get you into a happier vibration and you will start attracting more of that.
I know that I have adopted these guidelines into my life. All of my relationships are loving, authentic and I am happy and surrounded with positive people. If you would like some help changing your life for the better. I would love to work with you.
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